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Alzheimer’s Care That Works

What to Do When Someone Says No

Understanding resistance and how to respond without conflict

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Jan Erik Fosmark
Apr 06, 2026
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What Is Happening in the Person

When a person with Alzheimer’s says ‘no,’ it often sounds clear and intentional. But internally, the situation is usually different.

Because of changes in memory, understanding, processing, and sense of control, the person may experience the situation as unclear, overwhelming, uncomfortable, or unpredictable.

They may not un…

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